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01. Behave like a female, i.e. with all the tenderness of a female.<\/p>\n01. Behave like a female, i.e. with all the tenderness of a female.<\/p>\n
02. Dress pleasantly and attractively. If you are a home-maker, don\u2019t stay in your sleeping suit all day.<\/p>\n
03. Smell good.<\/p>\n
04. Don\u2019t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.<\/p>\n
05. Don\u2019t keep asking him \u2018what are you thinking?\u2019 because unlike women, men\u2019s thoughts are as random as the results of a google search. Women on the other hand have thoughts as organized as a labeled file-cabinet!<\/p>\n
06. Stop nagging non-stop before Allah gives you something really to complain about.<\/p>\n
07. Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet under the pretense of seeking help, even if you are the victim. If you think you want to solve legitimate marital issues then go seek counseling with the right person.<\/p>\n
08. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.<\/p>\n
09. Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam.<\/p>\n
10. Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug.<\/p>\n
11. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.<\/p>\n
12. Compliment him on the things you know he\u2019s not so confident about (looks, intelligence etc). This will build his self-esteem.<\/p>\n
13. Tell him he\u2019s the best husband.<\/p>\n
14. Call his family often.<\/p>\n
15. Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.<\/p>\n
16. When he\u2019s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you\u2019re interested.<\/p>\n
17. Encourage him to do good deeds.<\/p>\n
18. If he\u2019s in a bad mood, give him some space. He\u2019ll get over it, Insha Allah.<\/p>\n
19. Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It\u2019s a big deal.<\/p>\n
20. If he\u2019s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you\u2019re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he\u2019s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.<\/p>\n
21. When you\u2019re mad at him, don\u2019t say \u2018you make me furious,\u2019 rather say, \u2018this action makes me upset.\u2019 Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.<\/p>\n
22. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.<\/p>\n
23. Let him chill out with his friends without guilt, especially if they\u2019re good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn\u2019t feel cooped up at home.<\/p>\n
24. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it.<\/p>\n
25. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.<\/p>\n
26. Don\u2019t get mad over small things. It\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n
27. Make jokes. If you\u2019re not naturally funny, find some jokes on the internet.<\/p>\n
28. Tell him you\u2019re the best wife and compliment yourself on certain things you know you\u2019re good at.<\/p>\n
29. Learn to make his favorite dish.<\/p>\n
30. Don\u2019t ever, ever talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily.<\/p>\n
31. Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If you\u2019re a housewife, take online classes and be active in your community. This will not only make you happy but will impress your husband too.<\/p>\n
32. Do all of the above (i.e. trying to please your husband) for the sake of Allah and you will see Allah\u2019s blessings in everything you do.<\/p>\n
33. Spouses are garments for each other; hide your husband\u2019s faults and help him get over them wisely.<\/p>\n
34. Tell your husband you love him, many many times.<\/p>\n
35. Have a race with your husband and let him win, even if you are much fitter than him.<\/p>\n
36. Be fit and take care of your health; you will remain a strong mother, wife, cook and housekeeper.<\/p>\n
37. Cultivate good manners. Do not be too loud, whether while laughing, talking or even walking.<\/p>\n
38. Do not leave the house without his permission and certainly not without his knowledge.<\/p>\n
39. Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so they always look fresh and crisp.<\/p>\n
40. Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you, every day in every prayer. Truly Satan\u2019s most treasured act is to create rifts between couples to the point of divorce. Seek Allah\u2019s refuge from Satan.<\/p>\n
41. They say the way to a man\u2019s heart is through his stomach, and that\u2019s really true.<\/p>\n
42. Make sure you always have something for dinner.<\/p>\n
43. Brush your hair everyday.<\/p>\n
44. Don\u2019t forget to do the laundry.<\/p>\n
45. Surprise him with gifts. Even necessities can be gifts, like a pair of new shoes.<\/p>\n
46. Listen to him when he\u2019s talking. Don\u2019t interject him and talk about your own issues.<\/p>\n
47. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies (bowling?). Try not to go shopping too much and spend all his money.<\/p>\n
48. Look attractive and it\u2019s fine, in fact good, to be seductive towards him.<\/p>\n
49. Learn tricks and techniques to please your husband in intimacy.<\/p>\n
50. Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time (no children permitted).<\/p>\n
51. Take care of your skin, especially the face, which is the center of attraction.<\/p>\n
52. If you are not satisfied intimately, talk to him and help him. Don\u2019t wait till matters become worse.<\/p>\n
53. Never discuss important or controversial matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find the right time for the right discussion.<\/p>\n
54. Learn to compromise.<\/p>\n
55. Continue to do things for your husband and don\u2019t take him for granted.<\/p>\n
56. Respect his rights (he\u2019s your road to paradise).<\/p>\n
57. Make tea for him or whatever hot drink he likes, it will soothe his rough edges.<\/p>\n
“Jazaakallaahu khairan” islamthalam<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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