{"id":6935,"date":"2025-09-11T11:17:17","date_gmt":"2025-09-11T05:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sarinigar.com\/english\/the-hadeeth-of-the-permissibility-of-tolerating-and-showing-forbearance-with-some-wicked-people-in-order-to-ward-off-their-harm-and-foul-speech\/"},"modified":"2025-09-11T11:17:17","modified_gmt":"2025-09-11T05:47:17","slug":"the-hadeeth-of-the-permissibility-of-tolerating-and-showing-forbearance-with-some-wicked-people-in-order-to-ward-off-their-harm-and-foul-speech","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sarinigar.com\/english\/the-hadeeth-of-the-permissibility-of-tolerating-and-showing-forbearance-with-some-wicked-people-in-order-to-ward-off-their-harm-and-foul-speech\/","title":{"rendered":"The Hadeeth of the Permissibility of Tolerating and Showing Forbearance with Some Wicked People in Order to Ward Off Their Harm and Foul Speech."},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u02bfA\u2019ishah narrated <\/strong>that a man sought permission to enter upon the Prophet. When the Prophet (salall\u0101hu \u02bfalaihi wasallam) saw him, he said, \u201cWhat an evil brother of his tribe! And what an evil son of his tribe!\u201d<\/strong> <\/p>\n

But when the man sat down, the Prophet \ufdfa spoke to him gently and showed him kindness. When the man had left, \u02bfA\u2019ishah said: \u201cO Messenger of Allah, when you saw that man, you said such-and-such, yet when he sat with you, you spoke kindly to him and showed warmth\u201d<\/strong> <\/p>\n

Allah\u2019s Messenger \ufdfa said, \u201cO \u02bf\u0100\u2019ishah, since when have you known me to be foul-mouthed? Verily, the worst of people in rank before Allah on the Day of Resurrection are those whom people avoid in order to be safe from their evil.\u201d<\/strong> (Al-Bukh\u0101ri, no. 6032 and others)<\/p>\n

The Prophet \ufdfa informed \u02bfA\u2019ishah that the worst of people in the sight of Allah are those whom people avoid and keep away from out of fear of their evil and foul speech towards others. This man was one of them, so the Prophet \ufdfa dealt with him in that manner in order to protect himself and others from his harm and abuse.<\/p>\n

This conduct does not fall under the prohibited backbiting. Rather, it was to inform people about this man\u2019s condition, to deter them from adopting his way \u2013 and to explain the permissibility of tolerating and showing forbearance with bad people in order to ward off their harm \u2014 as long as such forbearance and tolerance does not lead to compromising the religion of Allah, the Most High. <\/p>\n

It has also been stated by the scholars that perhaps this man openly displayed his wrongdoing and foulness \u2013 and it is allowed to backbite a man who openly commits foul deeds if it is to warn others from following his way or becoming victims of his evil. However, one must fear Allah and be truthful \u2013 and not allow Shaytan to deceive him into prohibited backbiting in order to dishonour righteous Muslims, or to carry tales and rumour-monger as a form of settling scores, or entertainment in gatherings! May Allah keep us safe. <\/p>\n

Abu Khadeejah Abdul-Wahid.<\/p>\n

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